You're NOT the Only One.

A self-guided course that helps you resolve your infidelity situation
in a way that you feel great about.

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If you’re cheating on your partner – or engaging in anything you think counts as infidelity – you need wise, non-judgmental guidance.

I want it!

You need tools that actually help you deal with your infidelity situation.

You need new perspectives that inspire and empower you. You need to be able to see your infidelity situation through a neutral lens – so that you can think clearly about what you want, instead of staying stuck in loops of fear, guilt, panic, shame, or confusion (or all of those things, and then some).

And that’s exactly what I’ve got for you in
You’re Not the Only One.

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This self-guided course contains videos of me teaching you powerful concepts and practical tools that will help you resolve your infidelity situation in way that you feel great about.  The course also contains assignments that will help you apply my teachings to the specifics of your unique infidelity situation. 

All of this is housed in an online portal that you can access whenever you want to.  After you purchase the program, it will be available to you for as long as the program exists – which should be for a very long time, barring all of the usual unforeseeable disasters.

I want it!

What you'll find inside:

  • A private, online portal that you can access at any time to get the guidance you need;
  • Course videos that deliver guidance on all of the things you've been worrying about (and some you didn't know you needed!)
  • Worksheets that help you address specific areas of your infidelity situation that might be tripping you up, dealing with your thoughts and feelings, and more.
  • All the information and the motivation you need to take the action that helps you solve your infidelity situation in a way that feels great to YOU! 

 

 

Course Outline:

Unit 1: Taking Inventory

Your Infidelity Situation: Taking Inventory
Clarifying Your Goals

Unit 2: Essential Tools and Concepts

Introduction: Building Awareness
The Think-Feel-Act Cycle and the Model
Understanding Infidelity with the Model
The Power of Your Mind
Dealing with Your Emotions
Using the Model to Create Change
How to Digest an Emotion

Unit 3: Dealing with Other People 

Other People are Neutral Circumstances in Your Model
You are a Neutral Circumstance in Other People's Models
Other People's Opinions of Us
People-Pleasing 

Unit 4: Making Decisions

Decisions are Awesome
What Decisions Do You Want to Make?
How to Make a Decision
Dealing with Our Fear of Making Decisions
Making Decisions You Don't Regret
Keeping Your Decisions in Perspective

Unit 5: Ending A Relationship

Breakups Do Not Have to be Awful
Preparing for a Breakup
Executing the Breakup
The Intimacy of a Breakup
The Infidelity Factor

Unit 6: Creating the Relationships You Want to Have

Clarifying What You Want in a Relationship
Embracing Your Preferences...And Tolerating Other Humans' Imperfections

I'm ready for change!

What People Are Saying...

 “I’d been a serial cheater for years, and had gotten to the point where I thought I was beyond help – even though I desperately wanted to change. Marie’s approach helped me make changes in my long-established patterns that I didn’t think were possible. I have an entirely different relationship with myself AND my partner now, and I no longer fear that I’ll cheat again.” -A.Y. 

 “Before I started working with Marie, about 90% of my mental energy was dedicated to worrying about my affair (which had been going on for years) and what to do about it – and to judging myself for what I was doing...Now I have 90% more mental energy available to living my amazing life, and doing the important work that I do in my job. I’m immensely grateful.” -L.T.

“My only regret is that I didn’t start working with Marie sooner. I’d been stuck in limbo for a long time, trying to decide what I wanted to do about my affair. The idea of leaving my marriage terrified me, and I was too scared to think straight. Marie helped me address my fears, and helped me finally be honest about what I really wanted. I ended up deciding to leave my marriage, and I literally cannot believe how good my life is these days. I have a great relationship with my ex, and an amazing relationship with my partner… who used to be my affair partner.” – R.B.

I Want That Too!
Image of Marie Murphy at the beach with a red circle border around her and the text reading "Hello, Good Human! I'm Dr. Marie Murphy, your non-judgmental infidelity coach!" I can help you learn how to get over an affair.

 If you’re engaging in anything that you think counts as infidelity, you need guidance and support that respects the fullness of your humanity, and the complexity of your situation. You don’t need a professional with a weird agenda to throw a bunch of thinly – or not-so-thinly – veiled judgment at you.

That’s where I come in. I’m not going to shove a bunch of prescriptive advice down your throat or tell you what you should do or have to do. I’m going to help you figure out what you want, and what you want to do about it. 

I’m trained and certified as a life coach from the Life Coach School, and Martha Beck’s Wayfinder life coach training.

I have a Ph.D. in the sociology of sexuality from the University of California, San Diego, and my bachelor’s degree is in sociology and human sexuality studies from San Francisco State University.

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